Queer and Gender Diverse Characters

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This entry documents characters of gender and sexual diversity, and its portrayal on Supernatural.

Charlie Bradbury a lesbian geek girl who becomes a hunter, is the only queer character to appear in multiple episodes, along with Crowley whose sexuality is probably best described as "complicated." God aka Chuck Shurley was revealed to be bisexual (or possibly pansexual) in 11.20 Don't Call Me Shurley -- "I dated. Yeah, I had some girlfriends. Had a few boyfriends."

There have been, to date, no transgender or non-binary characters. Both angels and demons have been seen to switch between vessels of different gendered appearance, although it is often not known by which gender a vessel's owner identified. For example both of Raphael's vessels may have identified as female, or nonbinary. The intent of the writers appears to be to show angels and demons possessing vessels of different genders, although this does involve a rather binary and cis view of gender. In scenes where angels are in vessels of different gender than their original vessels, the show generally doesn't clarify the pronouns to be used. In 6.22 The Man Who Knew Too Much, Crowley expresses this confusion in regards to Raphael who is currently in a female vessel. Raphael doesn't clarify the issue, but later says "your own brother" while pleading for their life with the Purgatory-souls powered Castiel. In 14.09 The Spear, despite being in a female vessel, the Apocalypse World Michael is referred to exclusively as male. Similarly, despite having several female meatsuits, the crossroads demon Jael is specifically called "he" during 12.06 Celebrating the Life of Asa Fox. In 12.10 Lily Sunder Has Some Regrets, Dean is shocked to learn that the angel Benjamin, despite his masculine name, is in a female vessel. Castiel tells Dean that "Benjamin is an angel. His vessel is a woman."

The show has been nominated three times for GLAAD Media Awards, which are awarded by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) to "recognize and honor media for their fair, accurate and inclusive representations of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community and the issues that affect their lives." The nominated episodes have been 3.13 Ghostfacers, 5.09 The Real Ghostbusters, and 8.11 LARP and the Real Girl

Queer sexuality has been positively portrayed on the show. Queer characters have storylines in which their sexuality is not the sole focus, and they appear as diverse in their background and roles. The revelation of a character's sexuality is always well-received by the Winchesters. In Castiel's brief stint as a deity he stated that he is "utterly indifferent to sexual orientation" and it is also revealed in 8.23 Sacrifice that Heaven has cupids bring people of the same sex together. In 10.22 The Prisoner, while talking to Eldon Styne, Dean suggests that Eldon's enhancements could used to impress "the ladies or the fellas" and states "I don't judge." After meeting Charlie Bradbury and learning that she is a lesbian in 7.20 The Girl with the Dungeons and Dragons Tattoo, Dean shows no reaction to her coming out besides being able to talk Charlie through flirting with a male security guard to Sam's great amusement. In subsequent episodes, Sam and Dean only ever react positively to Charlie's open queerness, though given the number of oblivious male admirers she had in 8.11 LARP and the Real Girl, Charlie didn't appear to broadcast her sexuality despite being out and proud. When Dean told her Apocalypse World counterpart that he knew his Charlie well enough to know that she was a lesbian, the alternate Charlie took it as a sign that Dean really did know her, sharing an identical sexuality.

Over the seasons, Sam and Dean have often been mistaken for a gay couple to which they react with equanimity (and some confusion on Dean's part, though Dean has been known to play along, knowing it will annoy Sam). For a list of these occurrences see They're Brothers. A number of characters have made jokes about both Dean and Sam being Castiel's "boyfriend." The brothers famously discovered that fans write Slash about them, and Dean later learned that fans write about him and Castiel being a couple (for more on that see Wincest and Destiel).

The show has generally not used slurs related to sexuality or trans status, except for the following examples:

  • In 3.05 Bedtime Stories, referring to Sam's knowledge of fairy tales, Dean says "Dude, could you be any more gay?"
  • In 8.23 Sacrifice when Castiel and Metatron are trying to track a woman who a man is about to fall in love with so they can steal a cupid's arrow, Castiel reports back to Dean and says, "there was one female, but... I don't think she was female." Since we do not see the interaction, the line can be considered debatable as Castiel could have come across a cross dresser.
  • In 11.15 Beyond the Mat, the crossroads demon Duke says, "Well it's kinda every demon for him/her/zhimself." Zhim is a gender neutral pronoun. On the episode it does sound like "shim", and does appear as such in the closed captions. That word is a slur used against trans and gender diverse people. However this tweet from writer John Bring clarifies that intent was for it to be a gender-neutral pronoun.

In 2010, on the night 6.09 Clap Your Hands If You Believe... aired, #FightTheFairies trended on Twitter. Some people on Twitter thought the hashtag was a homophobic slur. Ben Edlund, who wrote the episode, mentioned the incident at Paleyfest in March 2011. Here is video of Ben talking about "Fight the Fairies."

In 2015, Charlie's death caused widespread controversy in fandom as an example of the tropes of "Bury Your Gays" (where queer characters are killed at a disproportionate rate to their representation) and Women in Refrigerators (where women characters are killed solely to advance a male character's story). See links below for further discussion of these tropes, especially in relation to a number of character deaths on TV in 2016.

Fandom of course loves to queer a text up and play with gender in our own creations, especially through Slash and also more generally through shipping. Some fans see Dean as coded as bisexual in the show's text. Many Destiel fans argue that the show's failure to have a same-sex relationship between Dean and Castiel is indicative of the paucity of representation of non-heterosexual relationships on television, and accuse the show of queer-baiting. This term refers to the concept that a TV show may intentionally imply a homoerotic tension between two characters with no intention of it being realized, purely to attract or satisfy viewers, particularly queer ones.

In 15.18 Despair, Castiel, knowing that the entity from the Empty also wants to defeat Death, tells Dean of his deal with the Empty. He reflects that he often thought about what it would be that would make him "truly happy".

"I always wondered since I took that burden, that curse, what it could be. What my true happiness could even look like. I never found an answer. Because the one thing I want...it's something I know I can't have. But I think I know...I think I know now...Happiness isn't in the having. It's in just being...it's in just saying it."

Castiel goes on to tell Dean that he is a selfless and loving and caring human, and that knowing him has changed Cas, has allowed him to care about people and humanity. He concludes with stating "I love you." At this Death breaks down the door, but a portal opens and the Entity is able to take Castiel, and Death along with him.

Many fans felt this scene was an example of the "Bury Your Gays" narrative trope, in particular the version known as "Out of the Closet, Into the Fire" where a character who declares their sexuality is soon after harmed or dies. For more details on the fan reaction to the scene, see the entry on Destiel.

Queer actors

Misha comes out...as straight

Misha seemingly coming out as bisexual during a at a dinner event with 200 fans at the Salute to Supernatural New Jersey 2022 on April 22nd when Misha asked the crowd "How many of you would consider yourself introverts? How many extroverts? And how many bisexuals?" to which there was an enthusiastic response from the crowd. After a pause, Misha added quietly "I'm all three." This was picked up by both fans and a number of media outlets. However following the Con he clarified that he was indeed straight:

I want to deeply apologize for misspeaking this weekend. At a fan convention in New Jersey, when I was talking with the audience I said that I was “all three” things: an introvert, an extrovert and a bisexual. My clumsy intention was to wave off actually discussing my sexuality, but I badly fumbled that and understand that was seen as me coming out as bisexual. This was not my intention so I need to correct the record: I am not bisexual. I happen to be straight, but I am also a fierce ally and the last thing I want to do is falsely co-opt the struggles of the LGBTQIA+ community. I believe and fully support that we need to sanctify the human right to express our identities honestly and to be free to love whomever we choose openly. I am deeply sorry for the clumsiness of my language. I want to be a better ally and I feel sick to my stomach that I might have done anything to make things worse. I’m trying to learn, trying to do better and I will keep listening. Thanks and I’m sorry, Misha.


  • On the site Television Without Pity, which was a major base for early Supernatural fandom, the graphic for the show pages and forum was a dragon called Raoul. He became known as the “Big Gay Dragon” or the “Big Gay Supernatural Dragon.”
Character Comment Actor and Episodes
Lily.jpg Lily is one of the Special Children. She is from San Diego. Her touch causes a fatal heart attack and resulted in her accidentally killing her girlfriend. She tries to leave Cold Oak, but is killed by an Acheri demon summoned by Ava and left hanging from a water tower. Jessica Harmon in 2.21 All Hell Breaks Loose: Part One
Crobett gsd.jpg Alan J. Corbett is a member of the Ghostfacers team who has a crush on Ed Zeddmore and his manly beard. Corbett is murdered by the ghost of serial killer Freeman Daggett. He returns as a death echo; death echoes can only be snapped out of their endless pattern by someone with whom they have an emotional connection. At the urging of Harry to “Go be gay for that poor dead intern,” Ed overcomes his fear to tell Corbett how much he meant to the team, and that Ed loved him. It works, and Corbett is released and then becomes our dead gay hero as he saves Dean and Sam by attacking and destroying Daggett. Ed sums up Corbett by saying, "And here we were thinking that we were teaching you and all this time you were teaching us, about heart, about dedication, and about how gay love can pierce through the veil of death and save the day. Thank you, Alan J. Corbett."

The episode was nominated for a GLAAD award for an outstanding individual episode in a series without a regular LGBT character in 2009.

Dustin Mulligan in 3.13 Ghostfacers
Meg!Sam2.jpg The demon known as Meg possesses Sam as she tries to exact revenge on the Winchesters. While wearing Sam as a meatsuit, she takes Jo Harvelle prisoner, threatening her in a sexually violent manner. Jared Padalecki in 2.14 Born Under a Bad Sign as well as Nicki Aycox and Rachel Miner
Demian&Barnes.jpg When Becky entices Sam and Dean to a Supernatural Convention, they meet fanboys Demian and Barnes. They are roleplaying as Sam and Dean, and it's the guys' fannishness that leads them to be heroes in the episode. In a subverting of the “fanboys aren’t successful with girls” trope, we find out they are, in fact, lovers who met in Supernatural chat room. Demian's insights into what make Sam and Dean’s lives meaningful make an impression on Dean.

The episode was nominated for a GLAAD award for an outstanding individual episode in a series without a regular LGBT character in 2010.

Devin Ratray (Demian)
Ernie Grunwald (Barnes) in 5.09 The Real Ghostbusters
Peace out charlie.jpg Charlie Bradbury is a lesbian with a taste for electro pop and left politics who is a keen gamer and fangirl. She has a tattoo, which she got at Comic-Con while drunk, of Princess Leia in a slave girl bikini astride a 20-sided dice. When she first meets Sam and Dean she is working in IT at Dick Roman's corporation. Whether at a reproductive right's fundraiser or a LARPing weekend (where she hooks up with Gilda the fairy), Charlie is very popular with women. She spends time in Oz fighting the war there alongside Dorothy Baum. Over time she becomes an adept hunter and is responsible for finding the Book of the Damned. This leads to her being killed by the Styne Family. She is killed in a bathtub, although it might as well have been a refrigerator.

8.11 LARP and the Real Girl was nominated for a GLAAD AWARD in 2014.

Felicia Day in 7.20, 8.11, 8.20, 9.04, 10.11, 10.18, & 10.21
TheChief.jpg Chief is a leather-clad dominant that Dean meets when magicians Jay, Charlie, and Vernon send him on a wild goose chase looking for a rival of the dead magician Patrick Vance. He says to Dean "You are really gonna get it tonight, big boy... You ain't been had till you been had by the Chief... Oh, and before we get started, what's your safeword?" His sexuality is unspecified, but he's definitely queer. Dean is left somewhat disturbed by the encounter and refuses to go into detail with Sam, though this appears to be more about the fact that Chief was a dom and Dean was the victim of a practical joke. Chris Burns in 4.12 Criss Angel Is a Douchebag
Crowley.jpg We first meet Crowley sealing a deal with a male banker with a kiss and teasing him about his homophobia. He also seals his deal with Bobby with a kiss, and later shows off a picture of the moment that he took on his iPhone. During his addiction to human blood, he has a demon lover called Lola, who betrays him to Abaddon. Crowley appears to enjoy sexual sadism and we see him relishing the "erotic value" of inflicting pain.

In order to set Brady up as a traitor with the other demons, Crowley uses the line that he and Brady are "lovers in league against Satan" which the other demons readily believe. In 6.07 Family Matters, he makes a joke about knowing Samuel, "but not in the biblical sense" and later refers to Cas as the bottom in their relationship. He also often makes sexual remarks to Sam and Dean.

Becky Rosen speculated that Crowley may have been Lilith's lover, and he has possibly had a past sexual relationship with Naomi.

In 11.01 Out of the Darkness, Into the Fire, Crowley engages in an orgy while possessing the woman Marnie, waiting till after it was done to kill everyone in the house and call his demon minions to pick him up. In addition to Marnie, Crowley has also possessed Linda Tran briefly.

Actor Mark Sheppard has said that he believes Crowley is "more pansexual than anything else". At Salute to Supernatural Dallas 2012 when asked if Crowley was gay he said "I don’t think he cares. He just likes making people uncomfortable."

Mark Sheppard from 5.10 Abandon All Hope... - 12.23 All Along the Watchtower
Raphael5.jpgRaphael6.jpg Raphael is an archangel who appears in both a male and a female vessel. Though Raphael never clarifies what pronouns to use when Crowley expresses confusion in 6.22 The Man Who Knew Too Much, Raphael pleads with Castiel about not killing "your own brother," suggesting that he prefers male pronouns in both forms. Demore Barnes (5.03, 6.03 & 6.20)
Lanette Ware (6.15 & 6.22)
Clairestiel.jpgFemCastiel.pngCastiel-at-Peace.png Castiel briefly possesses Claire Novak as a vessel. In 1901, Castiel also had a female vessel.

Castiel confesses his love for Dean (an act that brings Castiel true happiness), which calls forth the Empty to take him and Billie away in 15.18 Despair.

Sydney Imbeau in 4.20 The Rapture; Jessa Danielson in 12.10 Lily Sunder Has Some Regrets; Misha Collins in 15.18 Despair
Siobhan Kristen .jpg Siobhan Flannery plays Dean and her girlfriend Kristin plays Castiel in Supernatural: The Musical!. According to the writer/director Marie the musical explores the nature of Destiel in Act Two. Alyssa Lynch as Siobhan and Nina Winkler as Kristen in 10.05 Fan Fiction
Naoki-Family.jpg Naoki Himura's wife is traveling for work when their daughter, and then Naoki, are attacked by a soul eater. Jane McLean in 11.16 Safe House
Hannah.pngHannahV2.png Hannah the angel possesses a vessel called Caroline Johnson after she falls to Earth along with the other angels expelled from Heaven by Metatron. After she decides to allow Caroline to return to her life, Hannah subsequently manifests in a male vessel. Erica Carroll
Lee Majdoub (10.17 & 11.02)
Jesse and cesar.jpg Nicknamed #HunterHusbands by fandom, Jesse Cuevas and Cesar Cuevas are married hunters that Sam and Dean meet while hunting bisaan. After the hunt, they retire to New Mexico. When Dean asks what it's like to settle down with a hunter, Cesar says it's, "Smelly, dirty. Twice the worrying about getting ganked." During a talk with his older brother in 1989 when he was young, Jesse also mentions his feelings for a boy he refers to as Jackie. The conversation makes it clear that Jesse's homosexuality is not accepted in town and he and Matty plan to move away as soon as Matty is old enough before Matty is killed by the Bisaan. Lee Rumohr (Jesse) and Hugo Ateo (Cesar) in 11.19 The Chitters
Chuck-God.jpg God reveals to Metatron that he has dated both men and women. Rob Benedict in 4.18 The Monster at the End of This Book - present
Max Banes 12x20.png Max Banes is a gay witch and a hunter, who works with his twin sister Alicia Banes hunting bad witches. Like his mother Tasha Banes, Max is a "natural" witch and is quite skilled at it. He says his mother also taught him "how to seduce men." Kendrick Sampson in 12.06 Celebrating the Life of Asa Fox and 12.20 Twigs & Twine & Tasha Banes
Kaia and claire.jpg After a meet-cute over a monster attack, there seems to be an immediate attraction between Kaia Nieves and Claire Novak. They compare scars, and flirt, and Kaia seems to be a person the ever-stoic Claire feels comfortable being vulnerable around. Kaia finds her courage when she knows she can help Claire save Sam and Dean. With the ambiguous end to 13.10 Wayward Sisters, the future of this romance in canon remains to be seen. In fandom, the pairing has been dubbed Dreamhunter and has already inspired fanart and stories. Writer Robert Berens confrimed that this was a queer relationship. In 14.03 The Scar, this is further confirmed when Sheriff Jody Mills calls Kaia Claire's first love whom she has not gotten over. Kathryn Newton and Yadira Guevara-Prip
WendyHanscum.png Wendy Hanscum is the niece of Donna Hanscum who is kidnapped by The Carver in 13.11 Breakdown. Her bloodied "Love is Love" lesbian pride t-shirt is planted by Clegg in the van of Pastor Don Hankey in order to incriminate him. Sarah Dugdale in 13.11 Breakdown
Charlie-ApocalypseWorld.jpg Charlie Bradbury (Apocalypse World) is, like her prime universe counterpart, a lesbian. Questioning Dean on his relationship with her counterpart, she is happy to learn that his Charlie was also "into chicks", remarking to Dean that she "likes her." In 14.06 Optimism, this Charlie tells Sam that she met her true love while working at Richard Roman Enterprises, but lost her during the Apocalypse.In 15.18 Despair, we see that Charlie is in a relationship with Stevie. Felicia Day in 13.18 Bring 'em Back Alive. At Comic-Con 2018 Andrew Dabb confirmed that AU Charlie is a lesbian.
FunTimeNarfi.png Narfi is a Norse demigod who is shown enjoying a shoulder massage from a young shirtless man as Gabriel is recounting his time in Monte Carlo with the sons of Loki and various porn stars. Michael Adamthwaite in 13.20 Unfinished Business
ApocalypseWorldMichael.pngDean-Michael.pngMichael-FemaleVessel.pngMichael-Rowena.png The Apocalypse World Michael is shown having two male vessels and two female vessels. While in his female vessels, Michael is referred to exclusively by male pronouns. Christian Keyes (13.02 to 13.23)
Jensen Ackles (14.01, 14.02, 14.03, 14.09, 14.10 & 14.14)
Felisha Terrell (14.09)
Ruth Connell (14.14)
Max and Stacy.png Max and Stacy live in Lebanon, Kansas. Max is new to the town, and in order to impress Stacy, she steals the Impala. After surviving an attack by the ghost of John Wayne Gacy, and later a visit from Zachariah and Castiel from 2003, they get together. Weeks later the couple hang out with Jack and Stacy is nearly killed after an accident with an angel blade. Zenia Marshall as Stacy and Skylar Radizon as Max in 14.13 Lebanon and 14.16 Don't Go in the Woods
NoahOphis.jpg The gorgon by the name of Noah Ophis seduces men in order to feed on them, using his kiss as a method of transferring venom to his victims. He says he used to also feed on women, but that in recent years, women had become more cautious. Philippe Bowgen in 14.14 Ouroboros
ConnerTodd.jpg Conner Todd, the first murder victim in 15.15 Gimme Shelter, is stated to be openly gay and able to be himself in the more accepting church run by Pastor Joe. His killer, Sylvia, states that they dated when they were kids and appears to have murdered Conner due to her hardline religious beliefs. Sylvia also wrote "Liar" on his body after murdering him, possibly due to his having kept his being gay from her when they dated. Mark Dozlaw in 15.15 Gimme Shelter
Stevie.png Stevie is a hunter from Apocalypse World. in 15.18 Despair we learn that Charlie Bradbury (Apocalypse World) helped her out on a hunt, the two began a relationship, and by the events of 15.18 Despair were living together. Tori Katongo in 15.03 The Rupture and 15.18 Despair
Some gay action in 6.05 Live Free or Twihard.
Following are a few of the minor queer characters who have also appeared: Woody Jeffreys in 1.12 Faith
Meredith McGeachie in 7.05 Shut Up, Dr. Phil
Leslie Odom Jr. in 7.08 Season Seven, Time for a Wedding!
Laci J. Mailey in 11.02 Form and Void

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